Somehow, when scanning the (also alphabetised) ranks of hardbacks, I'd missed the spine that reads Martin Amis - Time's Arrow. Also a first edition - identical, in fact, to the pristine library copy I read all those years ago....£2.00..."I've only rung in the £2.50 once...." quips the kindly, teutonic matriarch with extensive colouration on her arms, like a spasmodically applied fek tan. We laugh, and I leave the BFH filled with a tremendous sense of the boundless benificence of life, the universe and everything.
Leaving Waitrose, having realised that in visiting the BHF shop I've neglected to procure sufficient funds for the day's food shop (necessitating the return to the shelves of a six pack of vine tomatoes and a carton of cup mushrooms - Christ, how *hatefully* middle class that sounds...) I bump into poor Lily. Lily & Tom were respectively Landlady and Landlord of The Gun, my father's beloved old boozer, for about twenty years. Tom passed on two or three weeks ago (cancer - a mercifully swift final downturn after having lived with it kept in check for a decade or so...) and what with the move and everything, neither of us had been able to get in touch with Lily and at least send the sort of statutory sympathy card that was abundant from Tom, Lily - and pretty much all of their sometime cliental over the years - when Dad died. I get a sudden and powerful sense of what an incredibly selfish tosser I am, but I resist the initial urge to flee the situation and instead find that my maternally inherited being-quite-good-with-people-when-I-want-to-be skills are kicking in and, following on from my I'm-lost-at-sea-please-rescue-me strength wave, I am soon hugging her, pecking her on the cheek and sincerely expressing my sympathy. Poor Tom. I bumped into him not long before he went and he said, with a gazing-like-a-caught-fish, oh-so-brave honesty that made (and makes) me shudder, "it's in the bones. Won't be long now."
Poor Lily. She looks as if someone has taken a straw to her and sucked the best part out of her, leaving a skin with hardly anything worth containing. How *do* we carry on?
But somehow we do.
Time's Arrow.
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Nice post if not very poignant. I was in the Twickers BHF today c. 14.45. I didn't see those books - or you for that matter. I love Times Arrow.
ReplyDeleteI like to think of you being in the BHF and then RoMo standing in the same spot...that is really lovely. I'm glad you got some bargains. I love charity shops...but there aren't that many around these parts. The best ones are back in my home town in Lincs. 'Oh you want that old first edition of Ulysses do you? 10p...? I can let you have it for 2p if you like' - Smashing!
ReplyDeleteThe other part of your tale is very poignant. Sometimes to greet someone after they have lost someone themselves is very hard. Grief is a difficult subject to talk about. We shuffle around it. Stare at it like a turd in a punchbowl. We don't want to discuss the hurt or the pain. And the heartbreaking way you describe the way her cheeks have been sucked in. It's like death can take away life from us as well. Pleasure and pain are so closely interlinked. Eros and Thanatos. Pleasure/pain. Life/death. Happiness/grief.
When we are searching along the bookshelf of life, we often find the books that we want. Those books are about goodness and humanity. I am sorry for your losses...it is a strange time after great loss...moving from hurt to hate to healxxx
I was also in the charity shop yesterday. I bought an Undertones single for 10p. But I didn't see Rockmother or Mr Swipe there. Mind you I don't know what RockMother looks like. Also it was a different shop.
ReplyDeleteShe looks like Julie Christie after a weeklong binge on the breezers. Assuming that Julie Christie would ever allow herself to be ssen in public with her tights around her ankles, that is. Or maybe that was me. Well, weekends are the only chance I get now to doll myself up.
ReplyDeleteWhich Undertones single was it btw?
You've Got My Number. Mind you I don't remember what the Undertones single was...
ReplyDeleteand don't call be "btw"...that's all cleared up now.
ReplyDeleteWhy don't you offer to cheer Lily up by popping round and reading Amis to her?
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